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Negative Effects of a Divorce

Divorce can have significant negative effects on children, although it's important to note that each child's experience may vary depending on their age, personality, and the circumstances surrounding the divorce. Here are some common negative effects that children may experience: Emotional distress: Children often go through a range of intense emotions such as sadness, anger, confusion, and anxiety during and after their parents' divorce. They may struggle with feelings of abandonment, betrayal, and guilt. Reduced academic performance: Divorce can disrupt a child's routine and stability, which can negatively impact their academic performance. Children may have difficulty concentrating, experience a decline in their grades, or exhibit behavioral problems at school. Behavioral issues: Divorce can contribute to behavioral problems in children. They may exhibit aggression, act out, or display regressive behaviors like bedwetting or thumb sucking. They might also become with...

How to Teach Self-Advocacy in Children

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Children learn THE MOST from the natural consequences of things, NOT punishment, NOT threats, NOT even rewards most times. On the other hand, how can we teach our children, without demanding or nudging them in the direction you want? Counsel to children can be provided by allowing them to be self-reliant, inquiring questions, and manageable challenges. Oxford Dictionary defines self-advocacy as the action of representing oneself or one’s views or interests. Self-advocacy is the ability to communicate your needs. Those who self-advocate are more likely to thrive in school, work, and life. Self-advocacy skills can be learned at any age. Teaching children skills to advocate for themselves is an important aspect of their personal development and empowerment. Here are thirteen strategies and tips to help children learn how to advocate for themselves: Encourage self-expression. Create an environment where children feel comfortable expressing their thoughts, feelings, and opinions. E...